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标 题: [合集] 面试碰到的尴尬事
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Nov 2 02:42:11 2010, 美东)
ZXCVBNMWUJI (无极) 于 (Sun Oct 31 22:38:21 2010, 美东) 提到:
is the nicest person I've ever met.”之类的评论。面试官耐心听我说完，然后仍
然笑眯眯地说：“Well, I was not getting along with him very well at that
time.”然后就是blah blah blah blah.我当场差点晕倒。
DrNewbie (NN) 于 (Sun Oct 31 23:33:50 2010, 美东) 提到:
You could have said back, Ohh, he must have changed quite a bit.
Or he only gets along well with suck-ups. I jam him up real good.
【 在 ZXCVBNMWUJI (无极) 的大作中提到: 】
fionaww (加州无鱼) 于 (Mon Nov 1 00:00:52 2010, 美东) 提到:
【 在 DrNewbie (NN) 的大作中提到: 】
: You could have said, Ohh, he must have changed quite a bit.
: Or he only gets along well with suck-ups.
DrNewbie (NN) 于 (Mon Nov 1 00:03:49 2010, 美东) 提到:
Third one: Am I such a charming person that I get along so well with him? Or Am I personable that we get along so well.
Fourth one: You should be happy with my people skills now right? Since I can get along with this snob.
If you love my answers and you get my sick humor, please join my club:
DrNewbie (NN) 于 (Mon Nov 1 01:25:54 2010, 美东) 提到:
The rest are for professionals only. No imitation by amateurs.
The 1st is witty. The 2nd is humor.
dojo (麦地里的豆角) 于 (Mon Nov 1 20:34:37 2010, 美东) 提到:
楼上大哥，你是来搞笑的还是来做广告的？你的这些自以为幽默的答案不是too judgemental ("he must"...lol) 就是自我吹捧。
试官尴尬，我以为不好。我的建议是回答"oh, sorry to hear about that" 就行了，
最多再加一句"I don't know why he treats you and me differently"，把这话题带
ChiUSMD (治病救热) 于 (Mon Nov 1 20:56:20 2010, 美东) 提到:
I agree. I assume you are a cute girl, and probably got a high remark from
him, otherwise he won't say this political incorrect thing. Go back ask your
boss whatever he said is true or not, then Send him a nice followup email
and make up something 拍一下马屁.
if your boss can send him a short email, 100% you are in or prematched.
My personal experience you will be ranked very high by that program. 美国人的尊师是骨子里的
sfkitty (meow) 于 (Mon Nov 1 21:12:16 2010, 美东) 提到:
这真的是个需要脑筋急转弯的问题，我觉得理想的答案是结合NN和豆角的智慧。“sorry to hear that" ，加上适当的表情（让面试官觉得你的确 feel sorry about it, 而不是随口说说），再加上 “well, I guess he must have changed a lot“， 然后以一个beautiful smile to wrap it up。
dojo (麦地里的豆角) 于 (Mon Nov 1 21:28:20 2010, 美东) 提到:
kaye ([email protected][email protected]
~埋底海豚~热爱游泳) 于 (Mon Nov 1 23:09:01 2010, 美东) 提到:
ChiUSMD (治病救热) 于 (Mon Nov 1 23:45:44 2010, 美东) 提到:
The old people always have some 童心，he tried to say "got you", just be his
way and do something satisfy his joke. Now matter how smart you are, just
pretend "he got you".
"oops" then smile, or slightly 夸张一下，any other words might turn the
table completely opposite.
American would anwer: "you are good" or "you got me".
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1 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-03 21:45:45 提到][删除][修改] [FROM: 71.109.]
1 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-02 14:27:31 提到][删除][修改]
Does it matter whether he has changed or not? NO! The best way is to switch gears right away with a neutral, courteous comment. 'Sorry to hear that' is NOT nice at all. Either is 'u got me'. You really have no idea what happened between these two. Could be something nasty. Or his reply could be just a joke. Either way, it is best not to get involved. Along this line, there is no reason to be 'SINCERELY' sorry for it. The 'sorry' line can be interpreted in a bad way: 'You are sorry because I am an ass?'. Better say something neutral without offending either side. 'You got it' works only when he was really joking. What if he was serious? It would be even more awkward.
There isnt any good answer for this awkward situation. Only an immature person would give you a hard time like this. If a person reply in a courteous way, he wins votes. My answer shows integrity, honor and wit. It wins respects from others. The best dealing with this situation is a polite short answer and a quick switch to other topics.
The beauty of my reply is that it does NOT offend either party. Of course, the tone and your body language determines how the msg is delivered and how it will be received.
'"I don't know why he treats you and me differently" could be taken as very offensive. Right? 'It is because I am an ass?'
2-4 are for laughs only. Hope everyone here knows when to chuckle on a joke.
All you can brag is how other people drooling over your job. How pathetic.
4 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-02 13:44:06 提到]
Ur foul mouth cost your job already. You just never learn. You will lose
your job again if you dont know when to hold back your filthy mouth.
You can only take pleasure in getting even by your bragging how the wife of
the boss who fired you left him. You are just plain sick.
You are nobody compared with your peers.
Even a monkey can get a score of 50 by throwing darts on a board. So you
think you are smart with scores of 70s? You just got lucky. Period.
Nothing to be proud of.
Talk to anyone who got scores of 70s and ask them whether you just got lucky
or it just doesnt matter. Dont use one case to counter me. Lets talk
about trend or stats.
Your numerous scum filled posts have been deleted by BanZhu. You were so
out of line that even BanZhu was ashamed of you and deleted your mean post
about your ex-boss right after you posted it.
There are many precedents of accomplished people turning into monsters in
their senior years When you were biting every bystander on the street, I
suddenly realized its not me, it is you.
Yes, there are plenty of very smart yet generous, decent people here.
They shoot for much higher goal than you. With your lousy 70s score, no
wonder the best advice you gave to them is to take the less satisfying
prematch. Because you could only get lucky once.
So stop misleading people by using you as an example.
To exclude me from getting info on the medi board, you tried to drag
everyone into ur private club. It just shows how childish you are. Only a
sick person would devise such an evil plan. Even your buddies think you
have gone too far and opened ur private club for public viewing.
You are just a plain sick old man.
4 [snowfox01 于 2010-11-02 17:25:32 提到] [FROM: 134.74.]
Dr.Newbie：Please be nice to this old man。
难道你没看见你把他生命中唯一的支柱----收集各种贴子，然后大言不惭的copy&post 到自己的网页。给打碎了。同时，他在麦地的“一手遮天” 用那二十年前的狗屁经验来误导新人，也让你给揭穿了。我能理解他的恼羞成怒。他也没几天了，就让他乐呵乐呵吧。
他的英语很好。中国人特别是我们河南人一听就懂。 像“welcome u join my club" 和his is a very unique 8-gua I enjoy to read”还有“I'm sure there you will get more benefits=我坚信在这里你将得到更多的好处。”多么容易的“直”译呀
5 [DrNewbie 于 2010-11-02 23:00:52 提到]
His best English is:
Bless the God. No wonder people call him the GodFather.